Tips to keep your life as a couple organized

Do you find yourself with so many things to do that you neglect your partner and don't have time to pay attention to them? We know that your relationship can be a key element in your well-being and sense of peace. Here are some tips on how to keep your life together organized so you can cherish those important moments and make them quality time, and also avoid leaving everything to the last minute when it comes to special dates:

1. Make the decision to spend more time with your partner.

If you're aware that you need to water that little plant of love every day, you'll be able to organize your day better. If we let ourselves get carried away by inertia, we may never find a space in our schedule for that appointment or conversation we've been putting off. Therefore, the most important thing is to become aware of the importance and need to spend time together.

Once you make your partner and your relationship a priority, and you realize that you must nurture that love daily, it will be easier to find the time to do so. Don't wait until routine deteriorates the bond so much that it's already too late.

2. Establish Routines

Routines can become great allies for your relationship. Although they always say breaking the routine, establishing daily moments as a couple, no matter how small, helps strengthen the bond. For example, eating together, preparing dinner, going out for dessert on the weekends, reading the newspaper together, going to work together and talking about projects, etc.

3. Offer Attention and Presence.

If you want to spend more quality time as a couple, there is one maxim you should follow: Eliminate distractions . When you're together, eliminate distractions. If it's dinner and you're not planning to watch TV, then turn off the TV, silence your cell phone, and focus all your attention on each other. We need to feel seen and heard by the other . Even if there's nothing to say, offering presence and full attention to that shared moment makes all the difference. A glance, a smile, a caress are far more valuable than several hours spent together in total emotional distance.

4. Have Quality Conversations

There are many couples who, even though they spend the whole day together, don't feel like they've connected with each other. This is due to the lack of conversations they have.